Conversation Prep Tool
Five minutes, five questions, and a little clarity before the conversation you keep putting off.
Free Interactive Tool
The Conversation Prep Tool
You have a hard conversation coming. Let’s get you ready for it. Five minutes. Five questions. A custom guide for how to open, what to say, and what to avoid.
Most people walk into hard conversations hoping for the best. This tool helps you walk in knowing what you actually want to say, and why. It is not a script. It is a framework that fits your situation, built from what you tell it.
Who do you need to talk to?
You do not need to use a name. A relationship is enough.
What happened, or what has been building?
A few sentences is plenty. You are not writing a report.
How are you feeling going into this?
Every feeling is information. Select the one that feels most true right now.
What do you actually want from this conversation?
Select the one that feels closest.
One more thing before we build your guide.
Sometimes what makes a conversation hard is not just what happened. It is the fear underneath it. Consider whether any of these feel true going into this conversation. You might select one, or none.
Your Conversation Prep Guide
You have thought this through. That already changes how this goes.
Want to go deeper?
One conversation is a start. If you notice this prep process bringing up patterns you recognize, that is worth following. Understanding how you tend to show up in conflict, and why, is one of the highest-value things you can do for every relationship in your life. The EQI Assessment is a good next step.
Take the EQI Assessment. It’s free.